Your first birthday in Heaven…
And we all miss you every day. I haven’t been as diligent about keeping in touch with your kids as I’d like. It’s hard with all our schedules being crazy like they are. I know that’s no excuse.
Thank you for showing up in my dreams when you have, even when it’s been bittersweet. The first dream was so hard. I dreamed that we were in a huge gymnasium somewhere, with me up high in the bleachers and you down on the gym floor. I couldn’t get to where you were no matter how hard I tried, and all I wanted was to reach you. I guess that just speaks to how I feel about you since you died. Sometimes all I want is to reach you, but I can’t be where you are.
The few dreams since then have been sweeter because I’ve been able to hug you. In each dream I’ve just held you for the longest time, pressing you into my chest until I could feel both our hearts beating at the same time. Like if I pressed hard enough, you would leave your imprint on me.
The truth is, you DID leave your imprint on me, in ways I’ll probably spend the rest of my life thanking you for. Lord, how I miss you. How we all miss you.
Part of me still can’t quite reconcile myself to the fact that you died, even though I was there when it happened. I felt your last breath, your last heartbeat. I guess I just know that, while you are gone from this Earthly life, you aren’t really gone. I’ll be able to reach you again someday, to hold you close and to share an eternity with you and Mama and all the others who are with you in Heaven. For now I have to be content to know that you are healthy and whole there, surrounded by God’s love and reunited with so many of our loved ones. Heaven must be so beautiful, and even more so with you there.
So, Happy Birthday in Heaven. I hope you and Mama and the rest of The Big Five can sit down to a big meal together, laughing and remembering the many happy times we enjoyed together. I miss you every day, but I know you are with me in the ways that really matter, and I know that I will see you again someday. I love you.