Pages and passages…
I have always been a sucker for a pretty calendar. Decades ago when I first discovered Coach leather goods, I purchased a navy leather organizer that contained an address book. The address book is still inside it, along with all the addresses I have penciled in (including those of people who have died. I’ve never been able to bring myself to erase them. It’s just too sad.) There is space on the other side to tuck in a small pad of paper or a calendar. My preference is for a calendar, one with monthly and weekly spreads, and with enough space to write down things like birthdays, appointments, musical events, etc. I color code the items so I can quickly identify what is going on and coming up.
My calendar serves as a hybrid volume: a planner for what’s coming, a journal for what has come and gone, and a mini-scrapbook for my memories about both. A couple of months ago I posted a query on social media asking my friends who are “planner people” which planners they use and like, and what features they appreciate. My current work assignment as a temp got me thinking that I needed to branch out a bit and try a vertical daily calendar layout, and I wanted some feedback on what my friends were using to schedule their lives for efficiency and productivity.
I received numerous replies suggesting all kinds of planners at various price points, and with lots of interesting and helpful features. The one I ended up choosing for myself has a lot going for it, but the main selling point for me was its disc-bound format that allows me to add and remove sections as I need/want/use them. Ultimate customization is ultimately appealing! It offers plenty of space to write, add stickers and washi tape, and the paper is good quality with no bleed-through.
As much as anything else, my hope is to plan and document my life’s passages, and the life passages of people I love, in a creative, meaningful way. I have kept my calendars for years, looking back over them with gratitude for a written record of events as they have happened. An electronic calendar works great for some people, and at some point it might work for me; but I don’t think I will ever be able to part with the old-fashioned-pen-to-paper tool that I’ve used all my life. The simple act of writing things down feels good to me; it reminds me of both the things to come and the ones already done; it gives me some accountability to see my goals in writing; and ultimately I hope it will help me to become more productive and effective as I try to live a meaningful life of service to God and the people around me, navigating my life’s passages with joy, wisdom and purpose.